Tanner's Makeup Adventures: My Girls' Favorite Canvas (and My Favorite Guy!)

Okay you guys, I know you saw the little snippet on Instagram, and I just HAD to spill all the tea (or, well, all the glitter and eyeshadow) about Tanner's latest makeover. If you know us, you know my girls, Stella, Ozzy, and now even little Cherry trying to get in on the action, absolutely LOVE to turn their dad into their personal canvas. And honestly? It’s one of my favorite things to witness. My heart just melts seeing him let them do whatever they want, even if it means he has to walk around looking like a rainbow unicorn for a bit hahah.

The picture I shared was literally right after he had cleaned off all the glorious artwork they had painted on his face. Mind you, it was a full glam moment before that. We’re talking bright pink blush on his cheeks, blue eyeshadow up to his eyebrows, and probably some lipstick smudged somewhere. He’s such a good sport, it’s not even funny. And when I say ‘good sport,’ I mean he genuinely enjoys it. He’ll sit there, let them pat and brush and giggle, and he’ll make silly faces in the mirror with them. It’s the sweetest thing ever, ngl.

Why These Messy Moments Matter So Much

I feel like sometimes as parents, we get so caught up in the 'perfect' moments, you know? The perfectly clean house, the perfectly coordinated outfits, the perfectly posed family photos. And don’t get me wrong, I love a good aesthetic moment just as much as the next girl. But these messy, unfiltered, totally chaotic moments? These are the ones that are truly building our family’s story. These are the memories that Stella, Ozzy, and Cherry are going to look back on and laugh about when they’re older. They’re going to remember their dad letting them turn him into a masterpiece, and that’s just priceless to me.

• It’s all about connection: When Tanner sits there and lets the girls do their thing, he’s not just letting them play with makeup. He’s giving them his undivided attention. He’s showing them that he’s present, that he values their creativity, and that he’s willing to be silly with them. That connection is everything.
• Fostering creativity (and a little bit of chaos): Kids learn by doing, right? And sometimes that means making a mess. Allowing them to experiment with colors, textures, and even just the act of applying makeup (on a willing participant!) is such a great way for them to explore their creativity. Plus, it’s just plain fun to watch the wild ideas they come up with.
• Building confidence: Imagine being a little kid and having your dad trust you enough to let you paint his face. That’s a huge confidence booster! It tells them, 'Hey, your ideas are good, your hands are capable, and I trust you.'
• Creating core memories: I’m a big believer in making memories. Not just big vacations or special occasions, but the everyday, mundane, hilarious moments. These are the fabric of our family life, and I want to soak up every single one.

Tanner: The Ultimate Girl Dad

Honestly, I couldn’t have asked for a better partner or a better dad for our girls. Tanner is truly the ultimate girl dad. He’s patient, he’s playful, and he’s always down for whatever wild adventure the girls dream up. Whether it’s having his face painted, building epic blanket forts, or having a full-on dance party in the living room, he’s all in. And watching him with them just fills my heart with so much joy. It’s one of those things where I just knew when we first started dating that he’d be an amazing dad, but seeing it in real life? It’s even better than I ever imagined :,).

He never complains about the cleanup, which is a miracle in itself hahah. He just laughs it off, washes his face, and is ready for the next round of fun. That kind of selflessness and pure joy he gets from playing with them? It’s inspiring, tbh. It reminds me to slow down, to be present, and to embrace the mess and the magic that comes with raising three little girls.

Embracing the Beautiful, Messy Reality of Family Life

So yeah, the picture was him post-makeup, looking all handsome again. But the story behind it is so much more. It’s about a dad who loves his daughters fiercely, who isn’t afraid to be silly, and who understands that some of the best moments in life are the ones that aren’t perfect or polished. They’re the ones filled with laughter, glitter, and maybe a little bit of smeared lipstick.

I hope this inspires you guys to embrace those messy, spontaneous moments with your own families. Let your kids paint your face, build that fort that takes over the whole living room, have a dance-off in your pajamas. Because these are the moments that truly matter. These are the moments that build strong bonds and create a lifetime of cherished memories. And trust me, the makeup washes off, but the memories? Those last forever. I love you guys sm!! ❤