My Heart is Full: Welcoming Baby Cherry and Our Family's New Chapter

Okay, you guys, I just had to sit down and write this out bc my heart is literally bursting right now. If you’ve been following along, you know we welcomed our sweet baby Cherry a little while ago, and honestly, it feels like she’s always been here. Like, how did we ever live without her? I’ve been dreaming of having all my girls together for so long, and seeing Stella, Ozzy, and now our little Cherry all together, it’s just… everything. It’s truly everything I’ve ever dreamed of and more, and I couldn’t be happier. The non-stop giggles, the little whispers, the way they all love on each other – it just melts me every single day, ngl :,)

I mean, I knew having three girls would be a lot, and it totally is! There’s more laundry than I ever thought possible, more snacks requested, more tiny shoes scattered around the house, and a whole lot more noise. But there’s also so much more love, so many more cuddles, and so many more of those moments that just make your heart feel like it’s going to explode in the best way possible. It’s chaotic, it’s messy, it’s beautiful, and it’s completely ours.

The Sister Bond: My Biggest Dream Come True

You guys, the way Stella and Ozzy have taken to Cherry is just… I can’t even. I mean, I hoped they’d love her, but this? This is beyond. They ask to hold her like ten times a day, no exaggeration. Every time she cries, they’re both rushing over, trying to figure out what she needs. Stella is already trying to teach her things, whispering little secrets to her, and Ozzy just stares at her with this pure adoration that makes my eyes well up every single time. Sometimes I just sit back and watch them, and I’m like, this is it. This is what I always pictured. Growing up, I always wanted a sister, and while I have the best mom in the world who was basically my built-in best friend, there’s something so special about that sister bond. To see my girls have that now, it’s just… it’s a dream come true for me, too.

It’s not always perfectly serene, of course. There are moments of “she’s touching Cherry!” or “I want to hold her next!” but even those little squabbles are part of it, right? It’s them learning how to share, how to be patient, how to love each other fiercely. And honestly, seeing them navigate those little sister dynamics already, it just makes me excited for all the years to come. I can already picture them as teenagers, sharing clothes (or fighting over them, hahah), having sleepovers, and being each other’s biggest cheerleaders. My heart just swells thinking about it.

Navigating Life with Three Little Ones

Okay, real talk, going from two to three kids is definitely a transition. I thought I had it all figured out after Ozzy, but nope! Every baby is different, every stage is different, and just when you think you’ve got a routine down, something changes. I’m still figuring out the juggle, ngl. Some days I feel like supermom, getting everyone fed, dressed, and even managing to get a shower in. Other days, it’s 3 PM and I’m still in my pajamas, Cherry’s had three outfit changes, and the older girls have eaten cereal for lunch. And you know what? That’s okay! I’m learning to give myself so much grace.

Tanner has been my absolute rock through all of this, seriously. He’s the best hype man and partner a girl could ask for. He steps in without me even having to ask, whether it’s changing a diaper, making breakfast for the big girls, or just letting me get an extra hour of sleep. I couldn’t imagine doing this without him. We’re definitely a team, and we’re figuring out this new rhythm together. It’s a lot of late-night talks, a lot of coffee, and a lot of just looking at each other and laughing at the beautiful chaos we’ve created.

Finding Joy in the Little Things

With three kids, especially a newborn, life can feel like a blur sometimes. The days are long, but the years are short, right? That’s what everyone says, and I’m really trying to soak it all in. I’m trying to be present in the little moments that fly by so fast. Like Cherry’s tiny yawns, the way she grips my finger, her little milk-drunk smiles. Or Stella’s elaborate stories, Ozzy’s infectious laugh, and the way they both still want to snuggle up with me on the couch. Those are the things I know I’ll look back on and miss the most.

I’ve been trying to carve out little pockets of peace for myself too, even if it’s just five minutes. Sometimes it’s a hot shower, sometimes it’s just sitting on the couch with a cup of tea after the girls are asleep, scrolling through pictures of them. It’s so easy to get caught up in the never-ending to-do list, but I’m really trying to remind myself to just breathe and appreciate the incredible blessing that this life is. It’s not perfect, but it’s perfectly ours.

My Mom: The Ultimate Inspiration

And speaking of blessings, I have to give a shoutout to my amazing mom. She raised me as a single mom, and honestly, seeing her strength and resilience growing up, it just inspires me every single day. She showed me what it means to be a strong, loving, and independent woman, and I carry those lessons with me always. She’s been such a huge support system for us, especially now with Cherry. Having her around, seeing her with her granddaughters, it just fills my heart. I hope I can be even half the mom to my girls that she was to me. She taught me that love is truly all you need, and that’s what I want to instill in Stella, Ozzy, and Cherry.

Looking Ahead: Our Family's Future

I don’t know what the future holds, but I do know it’s going to be full of love, laughter, and probably a lot more glitter and pink things, hahah. We’re still figuring out our new normal, and I’m sure there will be challenges along the way. But looking at my three beautiful girls, knowing they have each other, and knowing we have such an incredible family, I feel so incredibly grateful. This new chapter with Cherry has just brought so much joy and completeness to our lives. It feels like our family is truly whole now, and I’m just so excited to watch these girls grow, learn, and become the amazing women I know they’re destined to be.

Thank you guys for always being here, for your sweet messages, and for sharing in our journey. It means the world to me. Sending you all so much love! ❤