My Everything Shower Routine: How I Reset My Mind & Body (Almond & Vanilla Goodness!)

Okay, you guys. We need to talk about the everything shower. If you know, you know. And if you don't, buckle up bc your life is about to change. Seriously. As a mom of three, with Stella, Ozzy, and baby Cherry running around, plus trying to keep up with work and, you know, life in general, things can get a little… chaotic. A lot chaotic, actually. And sometimes, I just need a full-on reset. Not just a quick rinse, not just a five-minute hair wash. I'm talking about the FULL experience. The everything shower. It's my little slice of heaven, my personal spa day, and honestly, it's probably the only thing that gets me feeling like a human again sometimes hahah. And when I get to drench myself in the most delicious almond and vanilla scents? Forget about it. I'm in my happy place.

I've been getting so many questions lately about how I manage to feel put together or how I find time for myself, and honestly, this is a huge part of it. It’s not about having hours and hours, it’s about making the most of the time you *do* have and making it count. It’s about being intentional with your self-care, even if it’s just for 30 minutes. And for me, that means a really good everything shower. It's like a mini vacation for my brain, and my body always thanks me for it. Tanner even knows when I'm taking an everything shower bc he knows not to bother me unless the house is on fire hahah. He's the best hype man for my self-care, always making sure I get my time. I love that about him. He knows how important it is for me to recharge so I can be the best mom and wife I can be. :,)

What Even *IS* an Everything Shower?

So, you might be thinking, 'Lo, what in the world is an everything shower?' And I get it! It sounds a little extra, maybe. But trust me, it's worth it. It's not just a shower where you wash everything. It's a ritual. It's a whole process. It's when you commit to doing ALL the things. We're talking hair mask, body scrub, shaving, deep conditioning, face mask (sometimes, if I'm feeling extra extra), the whole shebang. It’s about taking your time, enjoying the process, and emerging feeling completely refreshed, renewed, and smelling absolutely divine. For me, it's a non-negotiable when I'm feeling run down or like I just need to hit the reset button. It’s my secret weapon for feeling good, even when sleep is a distant memory and my house looks like a tornado just went through it. It's permission to just focus on *me* for a little bit, and that's something every mom, every person really, deserves.

Setting the Vibe: Ambiance is EVERYTHING

Before I even step foot in the shower, I set the scene. This is crucial, guys. You can't have an everything shower in a chaotic environment. First, I make sure the bathroom is somewhat tidy. I'm not saying spotless, bc let's be real, with three kids, that's a pipe dream. But I clear the counters, maybe light a candle if I'm feeling fancy, and definitely put on some good music. Lately, I've been loving a chill playlist, something with a good beat but not too distracting. It helps me zone out and really get into the moment. Sometimes I even put on a podcast, but usually, I just want to listen to music and let my thoughts wander. It's my time to just be, you know? The lighting is important too – I like it a little dim, maybe just the vanity lights. It creates that spa-like feeling, and who doesn't want their bathroom to feel like a spa, even if it's just for 30 minutes? It's all about creating that little bubble of peace for yourself.

My Go-To Everything Shower Steps (Almond & Vanilla Edition!)

Alright, let's get into the nitty-gritty. This is my actual routine, the one that makes me feel like a million bucks every time. And you know I'm a sucker for good scents, so this whole routine is heavily influenced by my absolute faves: almond and vanilla. They just smell so warm, cozy, and luxurious, it's like a hug in a bottle. And @loccitane has been my go-to for these scents lately, they just nail it every single time. I'm not even kidding, I get compliments all day after using their stuff. Tanner always says I smell good, and that's a win in my book hahah.

Step 1: Hair First, Always!

I always start with my hair. I'll wet it thoroughly, then go in with a good shampoo. I really work it into my scalp, giving myself a little massage. It feels so good and helps get rid of any product buildup. Then, I rinse it out completely. After that, it's hair mask time! This is where the magic happens. I apply a generous amount of my favorite deep conditioning mask, focusing on the ends, and then I twist my hair up and clip it. I let it sit for at least 10-15 minutes while I do the rest of my shower routine. This way, my hair gets all the goodness it needs, and I don't have to stand around waiting. It's efficient, and with three kids, efficiency is my middle name hahah.

Step 2: Body Scrub & Shave

While my hair mask is doing its thing, I move on to my body. I love a good body scrub. It's so invigorating and makes my skin feel incredibly soft. I use circular motions, paying extra attention to my elbows, knees, and anywhere that tends to get a little dry. It's like buffing away all the dullness and just revealing fresh, glowy skin underneath. After I rinse off the scrub, I go straight into shaving. I use a good quality razor and a moisturizing shave cream. I take my time here, making sure I get every spot. There's nothing worse than missing a patch, am I right? Hahah. It just feels so good to have smooth skin, especially when I'm going to follow up with some amazing body lotion.

Step 3: Body Wash Bliss

Once I'm done scrubbing and shaving, I use my body wash. And this is where the almond and vanilla really shine! I lather up with the most amazing almond body wash. It smells absolutely heavenly, and the scent just fills the whole bathroom. It's so luxurious and makes my skin feel so soft and clean. I take my time, enjoying the scent and the feeling of the warm water. It's such a simple pleasure, but it makes such a difference in my mood. I feel like I'm really treating myself, and that's a feeling I try to cultivate as much as possible.

Step 4: Rinse & Deep Condition

After I've washed my body, it's time to rinse out my hair mask. I make sure to rinse thoroughly until all the product is gone. Then, I follow up with a regular conditioner, just on the ends, to seal in all that moisture. I let it sit for a minute or two, then rinse it out with slightly cooler water. This helps to close the hair cuticles and make my hair look extra shiny. I swear by this step! It makes my hair feel so soft and manageable, and it smells incredible from the mask.

The Post-Shower Glow Up: Don't Skip These Steps!

The everything shower doesn't end when you turn off the water, friends. Oh no, that's just the beginning of the glow-up! The post-shower routine is just as important for sealing in that fresh, pampered feeling. This is where I really get to layer on those amazing almond and vanilla scents, and it just makes me feel so cozy and put together.

Step 1: Towel Dry & Hair Care

As soon as I step out, I gently towel dry my hair. I try not to rub too aggressively bc that can cause frizz. Then, I apply my favorite leave-in conditioner and a heat protectant. I usually let my hair air dry for a bit before I even think about styling it. Sometimes, if I have the time, I'll even do a little hair oil on the ends to give it an extra boost of shine and hydration. My hair has been through a lot with pregnancies and everything, so I try to be extra kind to it now.

Step 2: Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize!

This is probably my favorite part of the post-shower routine. While my skin is still a little damp, I slather on the most luxurious body lotion. And you guessed it – it's an almond and vanilla dream! The @loccitane almond milk concentrate is just *chef's kiss*. It melts into my skin and leaves it feeling so incredibly soft and smelling absolutely divine. I take my time, massaging it into every inch of my body. It's not just about moisturizing; it's about connecting with my body, feeling good in my skin. And the scent lingers all day, which is just the best. It's like I'm wrapped in a warm, cozy blanket of almond and vanilla, and honestly, who wouldn't want that?

Step 3: Face Care & Deodorant

After my body is moisturized, I move on to my face. I apply my serums, eye cream, and a good moisturizer. This helps to lock in all the hydration and keep my skin looking fresh. And of course, deodorant! I can't forget that. I like to use one that's gentle but effective, so I feel fresh all day long.

Step 4: Comfy Clothes & Chill

Finally, I slip into my comfiest pajamas or loungewear. There's nothing worse than doing all that work to feel fresh and then putting on tight, uncomfortable clothes. I love a good oversized tee and some soft shorts or sweatpants. Then, I usually head to my bed, maybe put on a show, or just chill for a few minutes before the girls inevitably find me and the chaos resumes. But even those few minutes of peace are everything. It’s like I’ve built up my reserves, and I’m ready to tackle whatever comes next.

Why This Ritual Matters So Much to Me

You guys, I know it sounds like a lot of steps, but honestly, it's not just about the products or the time. It's about the intention behind it. It's about giving myself permission to slow down, to nurture myself, and to feel good in my own skin. As a mom, it's so easy to put everyone else first, to feel guilty for taking time for yourself. But I've learned that I can't pour from an empty cup. When I take the time for an everything shower, I'm not just getting clean; I'm recharging my mind, my body, and my spirit. I'm reminding myself that I'm worthy of that care, that I deserve to feel good. And that makes me a better mom, a better wife, and a happier human overall. It’s a small act of self-love that has a huge ripple effect on my entire day, my entire week even. So if you're feeling overwhelmed, if you're feeling like you've lost a little bit of yourself in the daily grind, I highly, highly recommend trying an everything shower. Light a candle, put on some music, use those amazing almond and vanilla scents, and just let yourself be. You deserve it, mama. You really, really do. :,) I love you guys sm!